Spying on your partner

One thing that I have learned from years and years of dating is if your boyfriend or spouse is cheating you will definitely feel it. In my experience, you do not really need to go through his phone, reading his text messages, emails, looking through his call logs (you know the normal but disturbing stuff us women do). Yeah right?!!! That was a joke. Even Beyonce snoops.
Who he be texting right in the middle of a game?
Ladies, if you feel all weird about his behaviour, and you need to get some answers, you need to check his phone or check his ass. Do not feel bad about it or ashamed about it. However you need to be prepared for the consequences of snooping and what you will find out and if you are ready for it. But most importantly you need to have a plan on how you will handle it, if your suspicions are true.

My personal experience with spying

Clearly, I am pro-snooping. I do not do it often and I do not like it but when I do, I have good reason. This one time, I suspected that the guy I was with was wasting my time, you know sport fishing. I tried to talk it out with him and he just kept lying and avoiding the issue. To add insult to injury, the boy turned the tables on me and started telling me that I was not committed that is why I suspected that he wasn’t committed. Now, I have a high tolerance for a lot of things but I cannot take it when people waste my time and energy and make a fool of me. So, I checked his phone and guess what? He was making plans to marry someone-else, yet he was here wasting my good child-bearing, PhD-getting, money-making years. For me, that was the beginning of the end. And I had been ready for it before I picked up his phone.

Spying on a whole other level

On an even lighter note here is something even more disturbing, SemenSPY!

According to a newspaper in Kenya, SemenSPY is “capable of detecting semen fluid left behind on items like underwear, bedsheets clothing, car upholstery and other surfaces.” Basically, it reduces you to running around collecting semen in odd places.

How far is too far? I think SemenSPY is too far. What is your take?

capable of detecting the slightest of traces of seminal fluid left behind on items like underwear, bedsheets, clothing, car upholstery and other surfaces.
Read more at: http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/entertainment/thenairobian/article/2000148094/a-spy-for-cheaters-comes-to-the-bedr
capable of detecting the slightest of traces of seminal fluid left behind on items like underwear, bedsheets, clothing, car upholstery and other surfaces.
Read more at: http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/entertainment/thenairobian/article/2000148094/a-spy-for-cheaters-comes-to-the-bedroom

3 Comments

  • Hellen Dausen

    January 20, 2015 at 3:22 pm

    oh well i thought this semenSpy was a practical joke! its for real?? Now this is too far, i believe as ladies, we have far more better things to do that roam around and collect semen all day…
    As you said, if he is cheating, you are the first person to know… you always have a choice, to walk away or stick around and play detective all year!!!

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  • Ora Gavin

    January 20, 2015 at 10:30 pm

    SemenSPY? That is too far! Too expensive! And much more too consuming my time… personally i just stick to the normal but disturbing stuffs in an advanced technology such as hacking all his social networks, phone calls and messages… so as there may be no regrets with whatever choice i may make..

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