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LET’S TALK ABOUT CONDOMS (#WAD14): HOW TO GET A GUY TO WEAR A CONDOM

There are many reasons guys give to avoid wearing a condom. My personal favourite is “there’s no better feeling than skin to skin!” followed by “I am clean, I swear it! Don’t you trust me?” or ” I don’t like condoms!” Whatever their reason, they always find a way to get their way in sex which makes it difficult for women to negotiate condom use during sex.

But with the prevalence of HIV/ AIDS we, as women, need to find smart retorts or ways of getting them to put on that glove, right?
Here is a video to help you with that! 

If that does not work, here are few retorts that will definitely get them to put on that condom:

1. Personally, I love the feeling of rubber to skin! If he says that he likes skin to skin.

2. I trust you just fine but do you know where I have been or whether I am clean?If he brings up issues about trust.

3.  That’s ok, I got a female condom! So if you won’ t put it on, I ‘ll put it on. If he says he does not like condoms.

4. No glove, no love. If he says anything about not using a condom.

Try them out and see how it goes. Not entirely sure if these would work for married women but you can definitely try them and let us know.


2 Comments

  • Nico Malik

    December 3, 2014 at 12:29 pm

    Its not the question of negotiating on whether to wear it or not..We are sometimes taken by surprise only to find out that we have not used protection…But we should admit that wearing Condom is not an easy task, it takes one's sacrifice to put it on….Nani anataka kula pipi ndani ya ganda????

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  • Cindy Bavo

    December 3, 2014 at 1:13 pm

    Nico, first of all you cracked me up. I had a great laugh!
    Secondly, I agree that it takes a lot to follow through with condom use, it is a matter of self discipline and self control. I do not entirely agree with you on the surprise aspect because I believe that people do not magically remove their clothes and have sex.

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